The fact that women’s sexual organs are largely tucked away inside their bodies (unlike men’s, which are dangling around outside) make understanding their function and appearance a bit challenging for most men. An example of this is the mythological creature called the G-Spot. The extent to which you’re able to properly identify the critical sexual anatomy of your woman, is the extent to which you can successfully help her reach orgasm, each and every time.
Let’s start with the outside first. The parts of a woman’s sex organs that can be seen outside can be collectively labeled the vulva. Let’s look at these parts individually.
The mons pubis is a soft tissue area that’s normally covered by her pubic hair right above her genitals. The purpose of this area is to help absorb some of the shock that results from you thrusting your penis inside her vagina and your body coming into contact with hers.
The next parts of the vulva are two skinfolds called labia that surround her urethra (which she urinates with) and the vagina. The first set of skinfolds - the ones outside, which are covered with pubic hair - are called the labia majors or in English, major labia. Some of us affectionately call these “pussy Iips”. In fact, that’s what the Latin word “labia” means - lips. These are comprised of fatty tissues that house oil and sweat glands. Those glands are what lubricates the vagina when aroused. These are also responsible for that particular, musky scent down under; a scent many men find sexually arousing.
The inner skinfolds are referred to as labia minora or minor labia. In most cases, they are much smaller and thinner than the major ones, on the outside. Another way they differ from the major labia is that the labia minora aren’t covered with hair and don’t have fatty tissues (hence the smaller and thinner size in most cases). When your woman is aroused, her labia minora swell up as blood rushes in and engorges them, in much the same way your penis hardens and becomes erect, when aroused. The minor labia become flushed with blood, so the color can actually be a pretty accurate indicator of your womans arousal.
After looking at her first lines of defense, the vulva, let’s take a look at one of the two sweet spots that, if you stimulate them correctly, will guarantee she’ll achieve orgasm whenever the two of you make love: the clitoris. This is one of the main sexual organs of your partner, and it's located at the junction atop of the two sides of the labia minora. Although it may seem as small as a pea looking at it from the outside, that's because it's the only portion of the clitoris that’s actually visible. The truth is, the clitoris is a much larger organ, most of which surrounds the vagina from the inside. Most women believe that this is the main part of the vulva that’s responsible for sexual pleasure whenever their vaginas are stimulated or fondled. As such, it’s important to keep in mind that this is the easiest and surest way to help your woman climax in orgasm. Massaging not just that pea-sized area, but the labia can be extremely satisfying for your woman and help you get her closer to where she wants to go. It’s the pea-shaped part that’s the most sensitive, though.
Consider the clitoris to be the equivalent of your penis’s head. It's composed of erectile tissues, and swells whenever it’s aroused sexually. It also contains a lot (millions, actually) of nerves, which makes it highly sensitive to touch or stimulation. Consider it to be the single biggest contributor to the sexual signals of pleasure sent to her brain. Like your penis, it also swells up in size the more sexually aroused she becomes.
Again, like the penis (an uncircumcised one at least), the clitoris is like Robin Hood - it has a fold of skin that covers its sensitive little head. This is pulled back as the clitoris swells up in arousal. A possible reason for this hood is to protect the clitoris from excessive stimulation, which can actually be more painful than pleasurable. As I said, we’re talking about millions of nerve endings in a womans genitalia and this little guy is ground zero for them.
The next part of the vulva we’ll talk about is the vestibule, which is a soft and smooth area in between the labia minora. Her vagina's opening and the urethra outlet are located in this area. Speaking of the urethra, it’s also fairly sensitive to touch and can be another source of sexual stimulation to help her reach orgasm.
Next, the vagina itself. Contrary to popular opinion that it’s an open tube, it’s not. It’s actually two walls of muscle tissue that are parted with the entry of an external object such as a finger, your penis, tampon or a sex toy, among other things. Oh, and the exit of a new born baby, of course (as it’s also known as the birth canal)!
The vaginal muscular walls are the source of the fluids secrete to lubricate her vagina and allow for the frictionless and pleasurable entry of your penis, finger or sex toy. As with the penis, your woman’s vaginal muscular walls swell up during sexual arousal.
There are different beliefs about just how far into a woman’s vagina nerve endings for sexual arousal can be found. Some say it’s just along the first 1/3 of the vaginal canal. However, the discovery of what is known as the “A-Spot” or the anterior fornix spot, located relatively deep inside the vagina, may suggest that nerve endings are to be found beyond the first 1/3 of the vaginal canal. A counter claim to this would be that it’s possible vaginal pressure may indirectly stimulate the clitoral areas around the vaginal barrel, thus explaining the sexual pleasure “deeper within”.
Now comes one of the most controversial of all body parts ever known to women (or men) - the G-Spot or the Grafenberg Spot (named for its discoverer, German gyne-cologist, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg). Since the 1940s, doctors and scientists have worked to establish with certainty that the G-spot even exists. Some believe it to be an extension of the clitoris and have studied women who experience orgasm during intercourse, due to the stimulation of this area.
This spot is said to be found on the upper walls of your woman’s vagina - if she’s lying on her back - and about an inch or two within. This is one of the most sensitive parts of her vagina - the other one being the clitoris - and is also responsible for helping her achieve orgasm. Because this area is quite close to her vaginal opening, it’s possible for a shorter penis - as short as 3 inches - to give her an orgasmic sexual experience. It would do you well to find your woman’s G-Spot, so that regardless of your penis’s size, you're guaranteed to help her reach climax. That’s if this works for your woman. It doesn’t work for every woman and you need to remember than while exploring, as well as the organ’s controversial nature.
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