When it comes to sex with intimate love and sexual fulfillment in a relationship, relevant knowlege and skills shall be learned. To prime her up, you shall first learn some knowledge about her erogenous zones and second you shall know about how to carry out heavy petting.You shall also reasonably communicate anticipation of both of you.
Erogenous zones
Erogenous zones are areas of our bodies which can arouse ourselves when touched. These can be parts of your body and hers you never dreamed could be responsible for setting you off the way they do.The inside of her forearm is one almost sure fire that will respond to your gentle, sensual touch by arousing her. This part of her arm is even softer than most parts of her body and full of nerve endings and blood vessels. Stroke it when she's least expecting it and hear her gasp.
The neck, jawline and ears are also areas that are commonly erogenous in women. A gentle touch in these areas can send shivers down her spine, just as hand gently resting on her hip, running your finger down the back of her knee, or placing the flat of your hand on her belly probably will as well. As you get your manual mojo working, try a number of different approaches. Remember that the element of surprise is always recommended. Touch that's not expected can be the most sensual touch of all.
Heavy petting
As you move from her erogenous areas to those more closely associated with sexual arousal (the breasts and genitals), your hands will talk even more loudly. Gently skimming the flat of your around across one or both of her nipples will have them erect instantly. Taking one of her nipples gently between your thumb and forefinger and then releasing almost immediately will have her begging you not to stop. Paying extra special attention to her sensitive breasts, while talking about how splendid they are, will have her limp in your arms and ready for you to move your busy little hands where they’re going to continue the process of driving her wild with desire and toward her first orgasm of the night.
Caress her ass; cup it with one or both of your hands. Squeeze and pinch it, your fingers moving ever nearer to the holy of holies. Make her wait a little while. This will drive her absolutely nuts. Just as she thinks you’re going to take that plunge, pull back to her delightful booty and keep her on the edge.
When the moment’s right, gradually move your attention to her genitals, holding your hand over them, as if warming them. Kiss her deeply as you do this. Then, with all the knowledge you now have of her sex organs; gently begin to work on them, starting on the labia, running your fingers up and down them. This won’t be a challenge, as she’ll be very lubricated by this point.
If you use your fingers well and fondle her the right way, she’ll be ready for some gentle genital probing and penetration. She’ll be slick and wet and even hungrier to have you inside her, especially if she’s getting to the point of experiencing her first orgasm of the night by way of your gently probing fingers. If you’re doing all you should be, this will happen soon, if it hasn’t already. Remember to keep it gently, slow and sensual.
Continue building up the sexual pleasure by keeping her on edge with your fingers one or two of them inside her already wet vagina, thrusting in and out while using your free thumb to simultaneously (but gently) rub her clit. Better wear your earplugs, because you might go deaf from the sounds of the wild, unhinged pleasure this will provoke.
Next, if you want to be sucked, you better know how to give your woman a great oral job too. Use your tongue well and go for the gold...her clitoris. Use a figure-8 motion or straight lick upwards...it's up to you. Change the pressure and the pace, bringing them down as she's close to climaxing to bring her down. Then, increase the pressure and pace again to bring her arousal level back up. Doing this will tease her so much she'll go nuts with the pleasure and its intermittent withdrawal. If she hasn't already come, she most definitely will now, because your fingers are doing the walking. In fact, her orgasm will be even more intense if she has come once (or even twice) before the final act.
Anticipation until explosion
Foreplay can be judged as a success or a bust in one word: anticipation. If you become a master of this, you’ll be able to build up so much anticipation that when she comes, it'll be like having an atomic bomb - or bombs - go off in bed. Anticipation builds tension, which arouses her even more and will eventually make her come explosively!
You should keep in mind that announcing every move you plan to execute in the bedroom isn’t building anticipation - it's killing it. Anticipation entails a great degree of excitement and for women, sexual excitement requires some level of ambiguity that keeps them guessing about what's next. Women are as sexually adventurous as they're cued to be by their partners. It’s your job to join her in that love of adventure and foster and encourage it. Being too forward or direct kills anticipation and consequently, excitement. When excitement goes out the window, her chances of going orgasmic later in the bedroom can take a nosedive too. Remember to build the intensity, withdraw, change tactic and move back in, over and over again. This will drive her absolutely nuts and result in orgasms she’ll never forget.
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