• Switch off Jealousy in Bed

    Jealousy eats into your relationship because it causes you to question it. Any time you have doubts, just talk about them and do so in a manner that holds no accusations. You shall just open up and let your feelings be expressed in a calm way. The problem with people who are jealous is that they're looking to read between the lines. Actually there won't anything between the lines t
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  • Mutual Sexual Fulfillment is Not Automatic (1)

    Before marriage, two people in a relationship always tend to anticipate too much and have a high level of sexual attraction for each other. Both always anticipate that their marriage would be heaven for both of them. However, after wedding, they may discover that what is heavenly for one may be hell for the other due to differences between males and females from both physical perspective
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  • A Plan for Handling Money in Relationship Is needed

    A simple plan of money management that has helped thousands of couples avoid financial warfare.“Our Money”: Building UnityThe first foundational stone in developing a financial plan is to agree that after marriage, it will no longer be “my money” and “your money” but “our money”. At the heart of marriages is the desire for unity. “For better or for worse,” we intend to
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  • What Shall Be Considered to Confirm Marital Roles?

    Before marriage, it is of great importance to confirm each other's marital roles so as to avoid future conflicts after marriage. To successfully confirm who will do that, the following questions and issues shall be figured out first. Those include where your perception of marital roles come from, what each of the couple are good and what's your likes and dislikes shall be clearly f
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  • Who Does What Shall Be Confirmed

    Confusion over roles is one of the most stressful aspects of contemporary marriages. In earlier generations where the husband was the provider and the wife the homemaker, there was little confusion about who would do what. However, in today's world where most young wives have their own careers, they expect their husbands to be majorly involved in household duties. If the two of you do
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  • How Successful Rebuilders React to Their Betrayal unpon "Discovery"?

    It behooves the unfaithful to handle the initial disclosure of their betrayal with care. These guidelines can help you avoid worsening the already terrible blow to your spouse when he/she learns about your affair. If you brace yourself for a radical ride of crazy emotions and follow these initial guidelines, you will increase your chances of navigating the perfect storm without sinking y
    Linda J. MacDonald, M.S., LMFT 6 years ago 10269 Read more...
  • What Forgiveness Does Not Do?

    The passing of time will never remove the barriers but they are removed by sincere apologies and genuine forgiveness. What it really means to forgive? Forgiveness is not a feeling but a decision. It is the decision to offer grace instead of demanding justice.Forgiveness removes the barrier and opens the possibility for the relationship to grow. But before learning to use forgiveness to m
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  • Five Apology Languages

    Different kinds of languages are used in behaviors of human activities.Just like there are love languages, there are apology languages. Hereby in this passage, five apology languages are introduced: expressing regret; accepting responsibility; making restitution; genuinely expressing the desire to change your behavior and requesting forgiveness.1. Expressing regret“I’m sorry” may wel
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  • Apologizing Is A Sign of Strength

    Under the influence of our parents, we may or may not be able to make apology to our spouse. Apology languages are languages used for apology to someone you want to show your regrets. Making apology and how apology is made can be learned from our parents, thus it can be inherited from parenthood.Stereotype on apologyIn the movie "True Grit", John Wayne proclaimed that "real ma
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  • Three Ways to Solve Disagreements without Arguing

    As disagreements and conflicts are unavoidable in our daily life, we should learn to solve them without arguing, to reduce quarrels or any bad behaviors in marriage.We've mentioned earlier that accepting conflicts and listening is of great importance before we come to any compromise to any arguments or conflicts we encounter in a relationship. Based on compromise, three measures as bel
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